To a Friend "Cry,but know when to stop"

It is just ironic that I am doing this post next to my previous post which talks about how beautiful love is. But the current situation forced me to write something that would give some relief to a friend whose heart has been broken or I might as well say whose heart's strength has been tested.

To a friend whom I loved who has been a good friend:

Things change. People change. Circumstances change. Everything is subjected to a constant change.

I know that this is not easy for you. Moving on is a long process. You have to go through some serious stages to bounce back. I know that you were not warned that "Loving a person comes a possiblity of losing him". And the road doesn't end when you lose him. It's a start of something new.

I know that you know that. But you just need a tap from your back, a shoulder that you can cry on, a hand that can wipe your tears for you to finally recover.

I am just here. Your friends are here. You don't need to shout out loud for us to hear you. We just feel it that you need us.

Love that is Genuine

(An article written by me three years ago as a requirement in my English 1)

I remember the lines from one of my favorite songs, “I Will Still Love You” by Stonebolt. Some parts of it give me an idea of a genuine love.

“When the moon doesn’t mean forever and the sun shines electric blue, and the mountains and trees tumble into the sea and rest their for eternity, no matter what you do, I will still love you”

It’s an outstanding concept of love no matter how hard things maybe, no matter what the person you love, no matter what the distance is. It’s an unconditional love despite those ordeals we have to endure. After all, love isn’t easy at all.

People always scared of giving out love and letting it come in. It’s because they think it as a responsibility. They fear the sacrifices that they may offer during the process of loving. But love is never a responsibility,it is a passion. You are giving it without hesitation. It is not quid pro quo or something that is given for an exchange. Love is a sacrifice, even you’re in a depth of distress. The only time you will learn how to love is when you learn how to sacrifice.

Who said that love should be subjective? When we love, we don’t love the qualities, we love the person as a whole, and sometimes it is because of their deficiency, that we realize that we fall for them. Sometimes we love them because they show some human weaknesses and blunder.

Love sees no distance. Love is never irrational. Letting it come in doesn’t mean that you’re soft. It is actually the most rational thing.